Every journey begins with the first step.

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I went to school for 5 days to learn how to pump gas.

Today I was thinking of memories of 911.

When the tragedy happened, people were stunned. For those who worked there or had friends, it was unimaginable. Although I didn’t live in New York at the time, for a moment, we were all New Yorkers. As the years passed and the museum and new development progressed, I often thought of visiting, but didn’t want to, perhaps because my memories of the buildings were too strong, making it hard to believe they no longer existed. 

For a couple of months, I worked temporarily in one of the towers. Coming and going was a mad rush of people going in and out. Our offices were on the 90-something floor. Going up was unusual; we could hear the whooshing of air as the elevator flew up to our floor.

After putting it off for years, on a visit to New York City around my birthday, I did head to the museum for a long-overdue tour. It was time. As I visited the museum, the buildings’ memories, the vibrancy of the activity in and around them, and the subsequent devastating loss of life were overwhelming. There are so many memories – and they all came flooding back the second I walked into the exhibits. The young and newly married husband of my daughter’s high school friend was memorialized there forever. She was 3 months pregnant with their daughter when he died, and while their lives have gone on without him, his name is carved in stone as a constant reminder of horrific and unnecessary loss.

There are artifacts, remembrances, photos, voices, clippings, steel pieces, and concrete at every turn in the museum. In the background, through the silence, everyone hears the song “Amazing Grace” played softly and so well by a bagpipe musician. It isn’t a museum of paintings and sculptures created hundreds of years ago — it’s a living, breathing, and powerful reminder of people, places, and an event that was (and is) unimaginable to everyone. Please don’t miss this experience. It will remain in your thoughts forever.

The Postal Service needs help, now.

Our United States Postal Service is in a jam, and we all need to help them. I read recently (and should have remembered it) that Benjamin Franklin was our first Postmaster; he was an innovator and revived the then-Colonial Postal Service to increase efficiency and profitability. We need you, Ben, right now. Nearly every resident of The United States is involved with the USPS and with their carriers, and station staff. People in small towns, large metro areas, every state, and US Territories depend on them. Military and government personnel worldwide rely on the USPS to facilitate the delivery of their mail. We all need their services.

I’ve am a life-long user of “real mail.” Even before the pandemic, and despite the emergence of new ways to communicate, my respect for the USPS remains solid. Nearly everyone I know in business, family, and social circles is aware of (and has received) real mail from me. I prefer hand-written notes and actual postage stamps; each envelope I drop into a USPS mailbox is a personal message from me to another. Today, I read an article about the USPS financial dilemma; people using 1st Class mail is way down, which creates a huge revenue problem for the organization. In my view, now, more than ever, people need to be in touch with family and friends.

Buying and using a postage stamp to send a greeting is a super investment in our USPS. Just imagine this: if 1% of the Nation’s population started buying and using stamps to aid communications, the USPS might be out of their downward spiral. I’ll send a few notes out today, so count me in. I’m happy to help.

The 3 most powerful words used in the South are: “Bless Your Heart.”

My dad’s ’39 Chevvy sure made memories for me.

This encore took 30+years to happen.

More than 30 years ago, I walked my daughter down the aisle on her wedding day. Not long ago, I walked the same aisle of this church to honor my eldest granddaughter on her own wedding day. It was an immediate flashback to many years ago; many of my daughter’s friends, bridesmaids, and guests who participated in her wedding were back for her daughter’s. I’ve known several of her friends since they were in 2nd grade through high school.

I must confess, more than one of her friends recognized me before I clicked on who they were. Seeing them was so much fun: little girls at first glance, beautiful moms with grown children of their own a moment later. As I watched my granddaughter and her now-husband go through their ceremony, I couldn’t help but smile at what they will experience in years to come. They have a wonderful daughter now; I know, one day Olivia will walk down that very aisle in her own beautiful wedding gown. I love that thought.

Stuff changes over time.

Every journey begins with the first step

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