One of my grandsons was going through a tough time and, like any other Grandpa, I was concerned about what’s happening. After I spoke to him on the phone, I wrote and mailed a short note to him with this Kanji Ideogram for Hope (nizomi) on the letterhead.
I have sent written notes, using real mail, most of my life, so everyone, especially my family aren’t surprised to receive one. I often include a special Kanji Ideogram depending on the circumstance.
Shortly after emailing him my note, he called me to express his appreciation and thanks for my support. He’s always been thoughtful, which is just one of the many things I’ve always been proud of with him.
So, to the unintended consequences.
He called me again the other day to share his exciting news that he had this ideogram tattooed on his arm. He prefaced this statement by saying: “I know you aren’t a fan of tattoos, Grandpa…” which is an understatement, to say the least. He has a couple of other tattoos, and I’ve always been hoping he wouldn’t add to the collection.
He said that my note to him, and in particular, the Kanji Ideogram was significant to him and he wanted to always remember it. Wow, will he. For the rest of his life, he’ll glance down at his forearm and think of the note he received and perhaps, of me.
In a way, I gave him a unique gift that did indeed have unintended consequences.
It’ll surely last long after I’m gone from this mortal coil.
Are we there yet? 